The most important thing that brings the ultimate talent in YOU to it's fullest , is you yourself. Now you must be wondering how can ''YOU'' be the answer to this big question? It's simple, the people of this present era are bagging their mindset with full of abilities and talent but the problem is they are unable to utilize them at the exact time when it is needed. It is again very important to understand that if you know something then you should be able to do that particular thing at the exact time when it is needed, and for this you will have to bring your presence of mind to full mode activation. But this is not very easy, even if you can listen properly, you can memorize things well and you can also explain it to your colleagues, you will have to relate those information with the upcoming circumstances in your life.
The 7 Ways that I am going to introduce for you are the ways that is known to all, but someway or the other people are unable to practice them on a regular basis. It is just like going to the gym for one week or so when captured by excitement, or after watching an action movie where a hunk hero saves the life of the heroine you become excited and start your next day with full energy as well as vitality to become like that hero, but slowly and slowly when that image starts to fade you are back again in your life where you wanted to be something but somehow you are unable to do that because of what you are. It goes like this:
1. A very significant way to move rapidly towards success is to hold yourself firmly. It means to judge yourself accordingly and in a very specified way that you never underestimate yourself. There comes a time when you really don't know what to say and how to react. You are not capable of expressing things properly and you say something which you really don't want to say. This happens when yourself undergo through the process of underestimation again and again thinking that this will make you strong something contradictory happens.
2.Don't predict what is going to be the result for you, because we never know the future, if your prediction fails then you will start predicting in a negative way assuming that it will bring positive results for you. For e.g. You start telling that Brazil will win the match against Argentina but you are ultimately a supporter of Argentina. Again one another thing is that if your prediction comes true several times you start relying to your prediction for every particular thing and it becomes your habit. But then A time may come when you will trust your prediction as if you can see it and end in doing a massive error or damage.
3.The world is a stage and we are the full time actor on it. A very true line that I think many of us won't deny.
Acting is beautiful as a career, but utilizing that talent in your day-to-day life can affect severely on your personality. Though in this generation if you cannot act well then you miss some of the most extraordinary moments of your life, you can miss the hangouts, you can miss the gaming in the game parlour with your friends, you can miss your date, you can miss the latest releases and you can miss the essence of bunking your classes for something that you like that you love. There are many more, but what I am trying to state is that we should not act and show something to our colleagues what we are not, we should always try to express ourselves in our natural form and in not what we can act or be into. Because I want people to love you the way you are and not what they can make you into.
4. Understand yourself your likes and dislikes and start practicing the habit of accepting yourself. If you can do this then you can be the 'hero' because you are then able to comprehend what the other wants to tell you and you start becoming a personality that is unbeatable. The secret is you have happily accepted yourself with what you are slowly working on your flaws and upgrading yourself day by day through the positive accepting process.
5. Make the habit of being punctual, but before that the excuses are as follows'' the train was late, I met with an accident, I was very busy with a family matter, I am ill(popular), Lots of wok pending, Transportation strike(self-made), etc. etc. See I am not telling that the above things don't happen in real, I am just telling that we should not hide your mistake behind the walls of the excuses mentioned. It ultimately creates a bad image, if you are not on time according to your commitment.
6. Don't be shy if you are not satisfied with something make an habit of telling it freely. What generally happens is, a lecture is going on and you cannot understand even a single word, but you feel shy asking the lecturer about the topic, in fear of what your friends will think about you. See we are human beings not superheroes instead we are like rickshaw pullers having our own speed of dragging our brains to work. It also depends on the rickshaw it's condition of course.
7. Last but not the least self dependency and keeping yourself cool. Remember ''Strength is Life and weakness death''(Vivekananda). Always aim to make yourself self sufficient not particularly with money but with knowledge so that at the time of haste or any sort of problem you can help yourself and also support others. If you can combine the above with a cool attitude people will call you grool(great+cool).
I hope I am able to explain at least something that is related with your busy and complicated life and hope you benefit out of this.
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