FEELINGS

I have selected this topic because this word describes various unknown sides of our daily activities, actions, reactions and our character. Our feelings are the most significant instruments that have an overall influence in our daily activities. If we can control it and act accordingly no one can stop us from turning into a real VEER of the ERA. Through this post I will try to make you understand and identify the various cool and dull areas of feelings that will help you to understand your thought process in a better way.
What are FEELINGS?

Feelings are something that form an essential part of our thought process. Now, it has a wider description in the field of psychology and is reserved for emotional experiences. Feelings are of two types one that can be described and the other that cannot be described. Various people have various sets of definition for feelings, and they have framed it like that, after several experiences. If we take the dictionary into account then the most particular meaning that will suit my post and the purpose will be: “An affective state of consciousness, such as that resulting from emotions, sentiments, or desires”. We all know that how our conscious state of mind’s activities helps us to achieve every success that we hope for, and that is when we need to have a perfect essence of feeling for accomplishing our task perfectly. There is no particular strategy behind it. All you need is to control it before it controls you.


Effects of FEELINGS

The most important part is this, and if you have made up your mind to read this thoroughly controlling your twinkling feelings of chatting, gaming, etc. etc. you have started getting control over your thought process. There can be many situations in your life where you feel frustrated, stressed and confused, you have your own way but you are unable to continue, or you have many ways and you are unable to select the right one, there can also be a situation where you find several areas of interest and several opportunities but you get stuck with your decision. What is the reason behind this inadequacy, is it lack of knowledge, or lack of confidence may be it is your inability to control your feelings or you have got the right feeling but the time is inappropriate. It will slowly discourage you and you will feel that there is something wrong with your process of accomplishing the task, and somehow that feeling which is flowing continuously doesn’t come to your attention. I am not telling that, here feeling can be the biggest destroyer because it is unsuitable with time, rather I strongly agree to what Oscar Wilde said: “Every portrait that is painted with feeling is a portrait of the artist, not of the sitter.” And after the painting is over it is the feeling that we appreciate the most may be unknowingly at times. Effects of feeling are both good and bad let us see which one your mind captures the most.

 Control YOUR FEELINGS before YOU are under their control

Now that we know how effective our feelings are, we would see what are the various real life ways through which we can get the maximum out of our unique feelings. No one can predict what is the very next thought that is going to capture your mind in the very next minute, even you yourself cannot figure this out. But if you start preparing yourself daily then you can feel the difference and you can master your thought process. I will share some common feelings and will try to bring out the uncommon or unsaid facts related with it, to state firmly that our feelings makes us outstanding and phenomenal in our performance. Let us see: 

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   1. I switched my computer on for the purpose of downloading some project materials from it, my homepage google appears in front of me. I typed “how to get the latest information…’’ in a haste and then my fingers are on “backspace tab’’ fish! I am deleting the words of the very topic for which I switched on my computer. May be you already know what are the results but for those who are going to try it now I bet you will not come back to this post now. Ok if you are back again and I have lost the bet let me tell you something, the first two results- no comments, 3^rd (hack fb account) - for revengeful or fun-loving, 4^th (loose weight) –for fit people, 5^th (create website)- people who want to do something, 6^th (impress a  girl) – for boys of course, 7^th (make a bomb)– upcoming scientists, 8^th (increase internet speed)– torrent addicts, 9^th (delete fb account)– for the depressed or the fearful, 10^th (download youtube videos)– for everyone. My God! It captures the attention of people from probably every age. Now here you need to understand that if all the above results are attracting you then the reason is your curious head showing your creative character, but are these going to help you for your project, a big “NO’’. So we need to slow down a little, impatience is everywhere now but remember don’t forget to give your brain time to utilize your knowledge properly the line is still utilised “slow and steady wins the race.
 
2.Studying a subject two days before exams, suddenly your mind is under control of the weather outside or the song that you listened on your friend’s mobile, of course you will bring out your camera to capture the moment or you will connect to the song website to download it. Now if I say that you shouldn’t do it then I am going to become your biggest enemy. But as it is said that we should not fulfil every wish of a child because the child becomes indiscipline the same goes for our brain. For once we should think that if we  can control this strong feeling then we are going to store it for the future to make us more happier and grow our eagerness towards it. 

3.Feeling something about someone, lost in thoughts, uncontrolled emotions, and sleepless nights. Happens with every one and cannot be avoided, but if you make yourself a little mindful at that time then you will get this golden feeling forever for that person, otherwise it will be like that man who killed the hen giving a golden egg every day only to get all the eggs at once.

   Feelings is a wider area, a subject that is well understood one side and is incomprehensible on the other. Jim Morrison a multi-talented man said : “We fear violence less than our own feelings. Personal, private, solitary pain is more terrifying than what anyone else can inflict.’’ The world is big and so is our work, strong and good feelings will give us good life. Hope I have written something valuable for all my readers. I would love to hear your opinion on this topic.